SEE CRAMPING RELATIONSHIPS IN CAMPUS.

IT IS A PAINFUL STORY TO BE TOLD FOR ONE TO UNDERSTAND WHAT TOXIC REALY IS...

 Betty joined first year ready to learn but not ready to any relationship. She got friends who could go out every weekend with their "partners and sponsors" for clubing and having fun. She got into that system innocently for she felt it could complete her. Out there she got into an unknown and confused relationship just for fun.  RELATIONSHIPS ARE NOT FOR FUN. Toxic relationship can ruin your physical, mental and even spiritual part of your life.

This innocent, charming lady loved this man so much for they used to have fun. The man was not serious he was always out there using his money to other ladies to satisfy his wants. He used Betty just for sex and she got pregnant three times and aborted by the help of her friends. She did the same thing over and over to satisfy the man ,,,just for sex. Once she aborted again for the fifth time and it got her into trouble she over bleeded. Being hospitalised for a month then.....she lost her womb . It is a sad ending in deed for she could not concieve again. Betty was negatively affected.

Betty was affected not just by her partner but also girlfriends who adviced her to abort. Toxic relationships in Campus tend to go further to even friends of the same gender relate unwisely. Keeping in mind that students in universities come from different backgrounds, beliefs, religions and deal with issues diffently, it is important to " BE YOURSELF"  be who you are ,,, choose to be you and follow the right. Campus students should know there identity to prevent them from getting into meaningless relationships. CHOOSE FRIENDS WISELY !!!

 

Apart from friends, love relationship are the most used and done wrongly in campus. Love relationships are for marriage and mature people who are ready for companionship and responsibilities but unfortunately students get into if for fun , sex ,finances and other confused reasons. There are ways to go by in relationships:

HOW TO ELIMINATE TOXIC RELATIONSHIP.

https://www.healthline.com/health/toxic-relationship#signs-of-toxicity speaks  on how to let yourself out of toxic relationships is by;

- Sorround yourself with right people.

- Define your success.

- Keep perspective.

- Attract opposites.

- Distance emotional drainers.

- Invest time wisely to avoid toxic relationships.

- Focus on quality relationships.

DATING WISELY.

- Be intentional.

- Show love.

- Have fun.

- Appreciate the little things.

- Spend quality time together helping each other not for sex.

- Work on having open communication.

SIGNS OF A TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS.

https://time.com/5274206/toxic-relationship-signs-help/

- Toxic communication.

- Lack of support.

- Envy or jealous.

- Controlling behaviors.

- Resentment.

- Dishonest.

- Patterns or disrespect.

- Negative financial behaviors.

       SAY NO TO TOXIC AND BLEEDING RELATIONSHIPS.

It's time for us to take chance for a better life, better tomorrow and greater destinies REFUSE AND GET OUT OF TOXIC RELATIONSHIP.  You don't have to go through issues alone cramping in pain because of toxic relationships. Change your circle, move on from wrong partners and friends with bad motives....